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Just the facts
Ask your friend if he is meaning 'boy toy' or a one night type deal, because the location and methods are different. If he is looking for a one-night affair he should hang out in hotel bars on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday nights. That is when the older ladies on business trips are staying there. Also, check out the convention and meeting schedules at local hotels and got to ones that might be female heavy - like nursing or teachers conventions. If he isn't 21 have him just drink cokes. Of course, he can't just sit there and mind his own business - he has to be a little aggressive and engage them in conversation. I have found that when trying to meet women for the first time never make a statement, only ask questions. Women love for men to take an interest in them (something I forgot).
It would go something like this:
Scene - 2 women sitting at a table. Friend enters.
Friend: Hello ladies, I am by myself tonight do you mind if I join you?
Woman: Sure
Fiend: Are you just in town on business?
Woman: Yes, we are here for a workshop.
Friend: Really, what kind of workshop?
Woman: State educators workshop.
Friend: Are you a teacher or in administration?
Woman: We are both teachers.
Friend: What grades/subject do you teach?
Woman: We teach 6th grade.
Friend: I remember I had such a crush on my 6th grade teacher, Mrs. Burdette. Anyhow, how long have you been teaching? (note - it doesn't matter if you had a crush or not or if your teacher was really Mr. Wilson - and remember, your friend is there to test the water so dropping hints will give him an early signal).
Woman: 19 years.
Friend: Wow, 19 years. You must really like your job. Where do you live?
etc. etc. etc. Ask as many questions as you can and reveal as little about yourself as possible. Trust me - it works.
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