Originally Posted by
sidburgess
I was not going to reply and just walk away (and I might regret actually replying still) but the lack of factual opinions being tossed around are astounding.
The notion that if you don't have a Wal-Mart that you are somehow forced to carry 20 bags around the block is false. Hyperbole much?
The notion that small towns are not urban is false. The grid, as nearly every town was laid out, is urban design. The reason blocks and streets are laid out that way is because they support and promote an efficient use of land that can be recycled and improved upon over time. From a more sub-urban to urban. When cities were planned, the drawings were oftentimes done WITH buildings drawn in to illustrate a vision for the city. So yeah, Choctaw planners had a vision or borrowed a template that is very urban.
Sub-urban isn't land that isn't urban. It just isn't urban completely. It is a "sub" form of it, but it should follow basic rules that allow the evolution to urban. Failed "sub-urban" isn't urban in any context because it lacks the ability to mature into more urban(see productive) use-cases over time. Whether that be the way the roads are laid out or the utilities that support it. Or more likely, zoning laws. Sub-urban does not equal un-urban.
I just moved out a neighborhood in Seattle where there were thousands of kids, no huge parking lots, and guess what, we had Safeway, Bartell Drug Store, Trader Joes... need I continue? Those businesses were more than happy to be there and in fact, are expanding in some cases by adding height to make two story stores and housing above. Use case, meet better use case.
Please, I don't care if you simply don't want to ever live in place that promotes efficient land use. But if you moved into a city that has a grid, my position is simply that by design, that city was supposed to promote and encourage productive uses of the land. New developments on the outskirts of a city/town don't do that. In fact, they degrade the potential that exists. As a former councilman, I simply see the role of local officials to at least not subsidize inefficient land uses but to instead relax contemporary zoning laws that restrict better, mixed uses, and to promote healthy economic development activity. Businesses will follow if there is demand.
We lived without a car, with 3 kids, among hundreds, if not thousands, of families doing exactly the same. Please stop claiming to know what life would be like without Wal-Marts if you actually don't know. It makes you sound incredibly uneducated.
Billions of people around the world don't have access to Wal-Marts and live in fairly urban "towns" and yet don't starve because they lack parking or have to carry too many grocery bags.
The funniest part about the some of these positions taken is that there is an subtle opinion that without "sprawl" (which is what JTF, myself, and others are trying to prevent) people actually have fewer choices. Like their life is subpar. I can't tell you how happy we were to be able to walk to work, walk to the grocery store, walk to 5 parks, and never once wish we owned a car. Automobile Alley could be a place you could live, work, recreate, and shop all in one place. The notion that that isn't possible is simply, flat-out, wrong. Ever since I got here, people have not stopped asking me if I am going to buy a car. In Seattle, I got asked that this many times: 0. The difference is mostly cultural and based on a lack of exposure to successful neighborhoods.
But you're not preventing it. You're preaching to the wrong choir. We don't want to live urban. We don't even want to live suburban. You may want to live where you can walk places, but we don't. For a variety of reasons.
It also seems like you might be projecting a bit on lack of exposure to other ways of life. Just saying.
The second notion that is flat-out wrong is that people don't want to live in such a place. Not going to elaborate here. It simply isn't true. Ask any real estate agent (perhaps outside of Choctaw)
Nobody is debating that. We know people want to live there (as evidenced by the tens of millions of people that do). But not the people that live in Choctaw. We like our space, we like places we go to have space. THAT'S WHY WE LIVE HERE.
So I ask, what type of place do you want to live in? If the pictures that JTF appeal to you, I beg you to imagine (pretend if you have to) being able to live in places like that, eat well, have a vibrant social life... because you can.
If not, I'm very cool with that. But then don't come out and say the way that I live is either not possible or is somehow miserable. I certainly don't think your way of life is miserable. Just not for me.
See above...We have no desire to live like you desire to live...I want a vibrant social life like I want an extra toe, and the only thing I need to eat well is a grocery store.
I don't see anybody bagging on the way you want to live, only you and JTF picking apart something that the people it directly impacts don't give two shakes about. Nor is anybody saying it's not possible. It's just a decidedly bad idea HERE.
On that note though, I do firmly believe that we have a problem with sprawl and I am going to fight to keep it from becoming the only or primary option. I'll do this because I am sincerely worried about our kids and our elderly. I loved seeing very old people still being able to walk to the grocery store, and have a great, active social life. Having grown up in a very small town here in Oklahoma, I know that isn't possible -- at least not to the scale. I volunteered and delivered "meals-on-wheels" and it is a sad sight. Our grandparents and great-grandparents are paying the price dearly. They survive through by getting hot meals delivered to them because they can't actually go shopping anywhere nearby. They can't stand it when you leave because they haven't had people to talk to. It really breaks my heart. And very few people are connecting the dots. I ask you to at least consider them as you choose how to support your community. Perhaps you get the Wal-Mart but you also fight to attract some smaller grocery store that is in the heart of town that is reachable by a short walk. Of course the challenge will be to attract a store because you don't have the population density to support one probably.
And the cycle continues and the result is places that only some people can live for a period of time, and if you are "stuck"... if you have to live your whole life there... you either live out the end in a nursing home or hope to God your meal makes it.
If you think any of that is false, I will gladly stop what I am doing and run a meals-on-wheels route with you to show you it isn't. Or take you to a few nursing homes where very smart, capable people are forced to live because they simple "can't take care of themselves" anymore. Many times because they can't reach what they need to survive. You can claim it isn't, but that simply wouldn't be the truth.
Apologize in advance. I recognize that my reply might come off as a little pretentious. I am fighting what I took as fairly offensive claims with a passionate response and am not perfect. I'll do my best to stay civil if the conversation continues. I'd actually like to continue the conversation mostly because there is a lot that wasn't said on both sides that could be fruitful ground to cover. But I'd like to give folks a chance to reply to what has already been said first.
Don't apologize, it's the internetz.
Just keep in mind you're arguing with the people that live, work, and shop in the very place you're presuming to know so much about. We don't think the same way you do about "urban" things. We consider a trip to Midwest City "going into town". You want urban planning in Choctaw? Good luck. People that live here don't care for it.
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