Re: DHS steals,abuses & kills children
I think the best thing to do is to try to get a different case worker if at all possible.
You tried to go over her head and that probably made her mad and the situation much worse for you.
I mentioned this before, this is a horrible predicament to be in...yes, it's sad that you have to grant these people so much power and control and if they abuse it, you have little recourse.. but the bottom line is you have to swallow your pride and do what you have to do to get this baby back home with you.
I wonder if you took your case to an instructor or professor at a law school and asked them to review it (maybe a class project/discussion ?) and see if you might be able to get anywhere with instructors or attorneys that might be able to help you. Just a thought...
I'd try every avenue available to get assistance, short of making them even more mad, but first things first, I'd request another caseworker and shift the focus from the legal travesty that you feel has occurred to doing whatever it takes to get your grandson back.
Does your caseworker have a plan of action, parenting classes you or your daughter can take, objectives to be met before they give him back?
Can you take all the classes and become a certified foster parent and possibly get temporary custody of him? (or does your past experience prevent that?)
Or are they pretty much just saying ' we have him, you can't ever get him back?'
Nearly all of the DHS workers I've ever met and I've met a lot of them...all had the children's best interests at heart, but I also noticed that they also were very compassionate to the plight of the parents once they realized the parents wanted their children back and were willing to work toward that goal.
The first thing I would do if it were me is to ask the question ' Please, what is it that I can do to get him back? Just advise me on what steps to take to get him back so I can do it ' and then go do it.
Good luck
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