OK, I've been listening to the Singles' Mingle on 98.9 all week. Folks call in and ask questions and get aswers from a 'dating expert'. So many women have asked, "Why don't more guys approach me?" The answer was always, "Because they don't see you as approachable."


Ladies, if you want to get approached there are two things you HAVE TO do. Look at the guy, and smile. Stop looking away instantaneously.....When you look away instantly, you've already shot the guy down. And he's going to save himself the trouble of making you do it more publicly. How many guys have you met without a look and a smile...probably more than one of each?