Leon
09-16-2005, 11:18 PM
Ladies, a question for you....came to mind just now while reading the Phone Number thread....Feel free to correct me if my question seems a bit skewed. I don't think it is though:
Who would you think to be the better boyfriend:
- a man who put great effort into attracting your attention?
- or, a man who discovered you were attracted to him first?
Here's a posibility:
- The man who breaks his back to catch your eye may feel like he always needs to break his back to keep you happy...down the road the pressure to do so may convince him to tire out and walk away.
- The man who sensed you were attracted first is more likely to be himself and feel relaxed in the relationship.
Anyone ever hear these words, "No matter what I do, I can't make her happy."?
Who would you think to be the better boyfriend:
- a man who put great effort into attracting your attention?
- or, a man who discovered you were attracted to him first?
Here's a posibility:
- The man who breaks his back to catch your eye may feel like he always needs to break his back to keep you happy...down the road the pressure to do so may convince him to tire out and walk away.
- The man who sensed you were attracted first is more likely to be himself and feel relaxed in the relationship.
Anyone ever hear these words, "No matter what I do, I can't make her happy."?