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buckt
02-25-2010, 08:03 PM
Years ago my silly brother in law said he wanted to be cremated. He said during his cremation he wanted the song "Come On Baby Light My Fire"..lol.

Got me to thinking...what song(s) would you want at your funeral?

Midtowner
02-25-2010, 08:11 PM
Mozart's Requiem?

PennyQuilts
02-25-2010, 08:11 PM
Hah. Funny question. I will have to think about it about although I don't plan on having a funeral.

Reminds me of my grandfather who was a wonderful, godly man but not a church goer. I don't recall every haven't a discussion with him about god or religion but he was the kind of man that didn't have to talk because you could see how he treated people and lived his life.

When he was dying, we had hospice help so he could stay home. As he got weaker and weaker, he lost his voice in the last few weeks but for awhile, he would write down what he wanted. In the weeks before his death, he asked for old hymns that he'd heard in church as a boy and would have us turn them up very loud (he was losing his hearing due to the illness). As a granddaughter, it was quite a journey to see how he returned to the faith of his boyhood as he came closer to death. Because he couldn't really speak, we still didn't discuss it. But it was lovely to sit in the dark, holding his hand and listen to the songs that gave him some sort of peace. I would never have even known that was going on inside him.

skyrick
02-25-2010, 09:00 PM
I have thought about this for years. It would be kind of Beatle heavy:

Flying - The Beatles
The Attics of My Life - Grateful Dead
In My Life - The Beatles
Across the Universe - The Beatles
Little Martha - Allman Brothers

The first and last are both instrumentals, very emotional ones, to me. The lyrics of the middle three accurately summarize what I would like to say to those I leave behind. Plus they are all upbeat, if not in tempo, then certainly in sentiment.

gen70
02-25-2010, 09:31 PM
My choices would change daily but, today it would be:
White Rabbit-Jefferson Airplane
Somebody To Love-J.A.
Today-J.A.

mugofbeer
02-25-2010, 10:11 PM
My wife, who is not the least bit Goth, has said she wants "Last Dance" by the Cure followed by "Until the Last Moment" by Yanni - - that's a combination!

papaOU
02-25-2010, 11:07 PM
boomer sooner to start

close with the OU chant

No kidding

kevinpate
02-26-2010, 08:33 AM
No preference as to words, or music, if any at all.
Such decisions belong to those who will receive the benefit of their choices.

mugofbeer
02-26-2010, 09:13 AM
Such songs belong to the wishes of the deceased for whom you honor at the funeral.

SOUTHSIDE GIRL
02-26-2010, 09:13 AM
One of them will be "Spirit in the Sky" Norman Greenbaum...not sure about the rest.

osu cowboy
02-26-2010, 09:22 AM
"Stairway to Heaven" Led Zepp long version-no other song

Generals64
02-26-2010, 11:21 AM
When I get where I'm going:......Brad Paisley...."Don't cry for ME down here"..

Grant
02-26-2010, 11:22 AM
"Stop Crying Your Heart Out" by Oasis may be a good one. I love that song. That and a good ole a cappella version of Amazing Grace. Haven't ever given it much thought though...


boomer sooner to start

close with the OU chant

No kidding

Lol..."when I die I'll be Sooner dead".

PennyQuilts
02-26-2010, 11:23 AM
When I get where I'm going:......Brad Paisley...."Don't cry for ME down here"..

That's a nice one!

Generals64
02-26-2010, 11:39 AM
Not too long ago....General78 announce to the world I had passed away...(it was another friend of his with the same name and the guy's wife's name was the same as mine0...However, I still started thinking about the things that would come about for a funeral so on and so on....But, if I go before the rest of you guys.....Have a party....(not at Coit's) ...... My wife knows I want to have everyone happy about something I've done. This is a rather morbid thread...
Sheesh...

Joe Daddy
02-26-2010, 12:20 PM
Highway to Hell followed by Stairway to Heaven. :LolLolLol

Generals64
02-26-2010, 01:12 PM
How about "It's Only Make Believe"????

dances with cameras
02-26-2010, 02:40 PM
"In the Stone (http://www.google.com/#hl=en&q=earth+wind+and+fire+in+the+stone+&aq=f&aqi=g4&aql=&oq=earth+wind+and+fire+in+the+stone+&fp=a048890d3c90c6fc)"...Earth, Wind, and Fire...dig it...

CCOKC
03-04-2010, 05:24 PM
I had a fried who had the OSU alma mater complete with the words on a screen at the front of the church. We were all required to stand and sing together. All of the flowers were orange themed. It was great. They closing song was spirit in the sky. I really miss her. I hope my funeral is as memorable.

grantgeneral78
03-04-2010, 08:35 PM
Man how morbid is this LOL

Prunepicker
03-04-2010, 09:22 PM
When the Roll is Called Up Yonder! Because I'll be there.

skyrick
03-05-2010, 05:39 AM
Man how morbid is this LOL

It may be morbid, but it damn sure won't generate any political rants!:woowoo:

Kerry
03-05-2010, 08:15 AM
Lone bagpipe playing Amazing Grace. Battle Hymn of the Republic would also be nice.

Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord:
He is trampling out the vintage where the grapes of wrath are stored;
He hath loosed the fateful lightning of His terrible swift sword:
His truth is marching on.
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
His truth is marching on.
I have seen Him in the watch-fires of a hundred circling camps,
They have builded Him an altar in the evening dews and damps;
I can read His righteous sentence by the dim and flaring lamps:
His day is marching on.
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
His day is marching on.
I have read a fiery gospel writ in burnished rows of steel:
"As ye deal with my contemners, so with you my grace shall deal;
Let the Hero, born of woman, crush the serpent with his heel,
Since God is marching on."
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Since God is marching on.
He has sounded forth the trumpet that shall never call retreat;
He is sifting out the hearts of men before His judgment-seat:
Oh, be swift, my soul, to answer Him! be jubilant, my feet!
Our God is marching on.
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Our God is marching on.
In the beauty of the lilies Christ was born across the sea,
With a glory in His bosom that transfigures you and me:
As He died to make men holy, let us die to make men free,
While God is marching on.
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
While God is marching on.
He is coming like the glory of the morning on the wave,
He is Wisdom to the mighty, He is Succour to the brave,
So the world shall be His footstool, and the soul of Time His slave,
Our God is marching on.
(Chorus)
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Glory, glory, hallelujah!
Our God is marching on.

PennyQuilts
03-05-2010, 08:22 AM
Lone bagpipe playing Amazing Grace. Battle Hymn of the Republic would also be nice.

The Battle Hymn of the Republic is fantastic. Some might not like the sentiment but the lyrics and the melody are beyond compare. IMO.

Generals64
03-05-2010, 08:46 AM
The Race is on:.........by George Jones??????

Caboose
03-05-2010, 08:57 AM
Don't Follow - AIC

Doug Loudenback
03-05-2010, 01:46 PM
My choice hasn't been mentioned. Drum rolllllllllll ....

Repent Walpurgis by Procol Harum

CarltonsKeeper
03-05-2010, 05:35 PM
Vision of my Funeral:

Song# 1 Tutti Fruitti sung by Little Richard (just to set the mood)

next: Short summation of all the wonderful things I've accomplished and good deeds I've done in my life time.

Song# 2 How Great Thou Art sung by Elvis Presley (directed at my personal being)
next: More speeches of my many great deeds and accomplishments!

next: Numerous Eulogy's to be given showering me with praise!

Song# 3 Let's Have A Party sung by Oklahoma's own Wanda Jackson

Last but not least: Flyers to be handed out containing "Mapquested" directions to the Red Dog Saloon for the final Good Bye and a little drink and entertainment for all my friends.

Generals64
03-05-2010, 06:49 PM
Vision of my Funeral:

Song# 1 Tutti Fruitti sung by Little Richard (just to set the mood)

next: Short summation of all the wonderful things I've accomplished and good deeds I've done in my life time.

Song# 2 How Great Thou Art sung by Elvis Presley (directed at my personal being)
next: More speeches of my many great deeds and accomplishments!

next: Numerous Eulogy's to be given showering me with praise!

Song# 3 Let's Have A Party sung by Oklahoma's own Wanda Jackson

Last but not least: Flyers to be handed out containing "Mapquested" directions to the Red Dog Saloon for the final Good Bye and a little drink and entertainment for all my friends.

================================================== ===========You have put entirely too much thought into this....The Red Dog?????

Yamaguchigirl
03-05-2010, 07:23 PM
Hallelujah by KD Lang

CarltonsKeeper
03-05-2010, 07:28 PM
================================================== ===========You have put entirely too much thought into this....The Red Dog?????
I'm expecting quite a bit from your Eulogy; then again, I probably won't be complaining!! LOL

gen70
03-05-2010, 09:47 PM
My choice hasn't been mentioned. Drum rolllllllllll ....

Repent Walpurgis by Procol Harum Nice selection. I love Lighter shade of pale.

gen70
03-05-2010, 09:50 PM
I don't need a map to the Red Dog, fully aware of it's location.

gen70
03-05-2010, 09:50 PM
Iron Man...Ozzie

citizenkane
03-07-2010, 10:33 PM
Mozart's Requiem Mass in its entirety.

Kerry
03-08-2010, 07:23 AM
I was once asked what I would like to have said at my funeral. After some careful thought I said the words I would like to hear most are "He's alive!"

PennyQuilts
03-08-2010, 07:24 AM
I was once asked what I would like to have said at my funeral. After some careful thought I said the words I would like to hear most are "He's alive!"

Ha!! I think I would also want the ability to sit up because you hear those stories of the guys in the long-term coma who heard everything but couldn't let their family know...

nik4411
03-08-2010, 07:40 AM
Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber

gen70
03-08-2010, 07:54 AM
Voodoo Child (slight return)... Jimi Hendrix

skyrick
03-08-2010, 03:40 PM
"Truckin'" Grateful Dead

Sometimes the light's all shinin' on me,
other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to meeeee...
what a long, strange trip it's been.

Ain't it the truth!

gen70
03-09-2010, 01:28 PM
"Truckin'" Grateful Dead

Sometimes the light's all shinin' on me,
other times I can barely see.
Lately it occurs to meeeee...
what a long, strange trip it's been.

Ain't it the truth! Agree..

911dispatch
11-07-2011, 02:04 AM
Personally I want Avenged Sevenfold's "So Far Away" played at my funeral.

its an amazing song and I would be honored to hear it playing from above :)

FRISKY
11-10-2011, 08:15 AM
Personally I want Avenged Sevenfold's "So Far Away" played at my funeral.

its an amazing song and I would be honored to hear it playing from above :)Interesting that you would bump this old thread today.

On this day 36-years ago...

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stick47
11-10-2011, 07:02 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LkcJabErL8

Achilleslastand
11-10-2011, 07:37 PM
Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber

+1
Also was featured in the soundtrack to the movie Platoon.

Maynard
11-10-2011, 09:37 PM
John Cage - 4'33" (http://www.medienkunstnetz.de/works/4-33/), with a full orchestra.

skyrick
11-11-2011, 02:59 PM
John Cage - 4'33" (http://www.medienkunstnetz.de/works/4-33/), with a full orchestra.

I play it at full volume when I listen to it.

skyrick
11-11-2011, 03:34 PM
John Cage - 4'33" (http://www.medienkunstnetz.de/works/4-33/), with a full orchestra.

I had to check. This song is actually available for download on iTunes! Only 99 cents!

T-rex
11-11-2011, 09:52 PM
george jones.............choices
eagles...............desperado
and as my pine box is being rolled into the furnace........viking funeral song(instrumental) from the 1958 movie "the vikings"

RadicalModerate
11-11-2011, 09:57 PM
So famous they named a wine after it . . . =)
Just kidding . . . Check out the lyrics.
(Even if the bearded, hippie, cracker, weirdo, freak sings as bad as Kris Kristofferson.)

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kevinpate
11-11-2011, 10:21 PM
For my Pops it was a mixture .. Bob Wills is still the King, Yellow Rose of Texas, Victory in Jesus.

For Momma it was Smoky Mountain Rain and I'm Alive by Davy Gray of Shadz of Gray. Beautiful song not heard by all that
many I suppose. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xiMpOuzkMk&feature=related

RadicalModerate
11-11-2011, 10:42 PM
Thank You Kevin.
For sharing [the link].
Beautiful song and fitting for the occasion.

Here's another "little heard song" that registered with me when my "paradigm of reality" was "realigned."
Sorry about the "neo-Churchy" into . . .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ID7oKzYzjJE

BTW: That was the first time I ever "saw" the artist.
The old cassettes are disintegrated and the DVD is . . . ? =)
I suppose that it might be an indication of the soon to be cliche:
If Something is Really True . . . It Is True Forever.

kevinpate
11-11-2011, 11:03 PM
I return the thanks. Balin is a new artist to me. I enjoyed both the Well Done you linked and the side link for Why Me from that page.

It's been a tough year. I takes my comfort where I finds it.

RadicalModerate
11-11-2011, 11:42 PM
I think that both your Dad and Mom would be glad.
As I said: If "something" is True it is True Forever.
I am fairly certain that your folks understood all that.


(Once again, I apologize for the Neo-Outdated, ChurchyStuff that preceeded Ms. Balin's delivery of The Message from about a decade and a half ago.)

DallasCop2566
11-13-2011, 01:16 AM
Against the wall you Red Neck Mother-------------