Which of you here has one or more friends of the opposite sex, married or not, with whom you wish you could be more than friends?

Why can you not be more?

It was his choice.. he was o.k. with being physical, but didn't want/have time for a relationship. I was not o.k. with being physical without being able to have some sort of relationship. I didn't want anything serious, I just didn't like that he made out with me and then told me to see other people. So, we decided on the 'just friends' thing.. which isn't working out too well!

I think if you ever go past 'just friends' by even a little, there is no going back. If I had 'feelings' for a good friend, the risk of loosing a certain friend for a chance at a relationship might be enough to keep me from acting on those feelings.


This is a changed perspective for me.

I have a few that I wish I could be more than just freinds with, but they are spoken for already.