When you start to get a little older in life you realize that anyone you get involved with is going to have baggage of one type or another. Whether that is kids or a bad experience with an ex-spouse or fiancee. We all have a little baggage. I have dated a woman that already had a kid and had no problem with it. The reason we broke was totally seperate from that issue. As long as you feel something for that person I don't think that should matter.