Sorry, don't mean there is anything 'wrong' with a person that is over 35 and never married. I just mean that it may say alot about them as opposed to a person in their 20's.

But trust me, I have issues with many people who get married as soon as they turn 21 also.

If I hadn't been introduced to my wife, I very well would be a 30's single man.

What I meant is that a person who has gone 35+ years without marriage is going to be set in many of their ways.

Committment may not mean alot or it may mean so much that they are unable to find someone with the same values.

Often an older single person has a career, education and their habits. I think it makes it harder to find a match in many cases.

If, heaven forbid, my wife died tomorrow in a car accident, I would hate the idea of jumping into a world of single 30-somethings because I have routine that works for me and probably wouldn't for many other people.

Hope you see where I'm going. I know what I want to say, but don't have the energy to say it.