Well being a single female...I can tell you the reasons I am still single. Most of the men I dated lied about the same things....1. stating they were single when they were married 2. invovled with someone "attached but looking" (if that makes any sense!) , 3. not wanting a commitment saying they had been hurt and not wanting to get hurt again, so they say they want "friends with benefits" 4. refuse to take responsilblity for any other their actions. 5. being hung up on women that are drug addicts, alcoholics, strippers, or just general underachievers looking for a free ride, men will say "she needs me and I feel for the children she has" or just because "she is hot" believing they can "change" them bring them home and make them a housewife...
I had one that wants a woman to support him! I have also heard that most men are still looking for the "fireworks" when they first see a woman, then they will know. I always question how this is going to happen in a bar when the beer goggles are on?
I think society in general has a distorted view of marriage and family. Living together , children out of wedlock, having affairs.... acceptable all with no consequences. loyalty is something that has been lost, If people would just try and build a relationship built on honesty and stick to commitments, taking pride in themselves we might get some headway.