I stayed single for so many years for many reasons that varied from relationship to relationship. However, there was always one constant - Until I met my wife I hadn't dated anyone that gave me that sick feeling if I thought about them not being in my life.

I really think it was because our relationship fit together so perfect. There were no lies in the beginning (can't tell you the number of women I dated that had other 'boy friends' but denied it. One was even married but seperated.). We also took it slow. We only saw each other once a week at most and didn't sleep with each other or 'stay over' until we had dated for several months. I think space in the begining allowed us to really develop a bond.

My previous relationships were based on mostly sex or boredom. Also, many women had way too much baggage (braty kids, an ex husband, bills, emotional issues, etc.).

When I met a woman that liked me but obviously didn't 'need' me, I was hooked.