okay, regarding the 'sell' ... I think it's scary and awkward sometimes to attend a gathering with these preconceived notions ... I'm thinking maybe change the night from Singles Night to a more user friendly gathering ... no labels... you have to admit, it is daunting to place all these expectations on a particular group ( singles, looking for love etc) ..

How about a fun 'Come as you are 'Game or RockBand' night' maybe?

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