thanks guys, your posts have me in tears this morning just because the whole thing is so upsetting ... I was up all night... couldn't stop thinking about it. I appreciate it so much, such a difficult position to be in.

Bailjumper, your post sounds identical to what my friends been going through for the last few yeas.. this kid started early.

They are great parents which is why it is so hard to believe. They do work a lot though leaving the kids with a lot of free time and time to make some really bad choices.

My whole intention was to anonymously alert mom to read his page, where he busted himself over and over and her not mention me....and then just monitor his behavior to prevent anything bad from happening, but it has really blown up with his mom threatening to take copies of the incriminating posts to the other parents ( he'll be really popular now).. he told her he hated her and she said, 'well, if he hates me now, it doesn't matter how mad I make him I guess' .... it's just all so sad.

I know this will pass but what a mess.

Thanks again.

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