Karried, you've quite possibly done better than you think. I rather quickly saw an alternative ending re the Italy trip. The lad's not the brightest crayon in the box, his detailed exploits online are adequate evidence of that. Yet he might have enough non 420'd grey matter to realize stash in his bag is a bad idea. Slipping his version of fun de jour into a bag of mumsykins or one of the sibheads is something not beyond the realm of the possible.

I've helped raise my own brood as my parents raised me .. give direction, give guidance, and as important, give room to make, and learn from, mistakes while encouraging them to avoid the big mistakes. Are my angels perfect? nah, but I wouldn't trade off any of the three, and I'm fairly confident my luggage remains bad choice free.

Best wishes to your friend, da 'nephew' and for your own peace of mind.