Truth be told, it's not that uncommon to not know the sexual identity of a kitten until they are about 3 months old. Male testes don't always drop at the same rate, and until they do, it's often hard to tell You're not the first person this has happened to, so don't fret about it.

Regardless of whether Smokey is a he or a she, you need to get him/her neutered and /or spayed. Please call Best Friends of Shelter Pets and consider the low-cost procedure, if you qualify.