The sex of the cat has nothing to do with personality. My god.

You took her in, it's your responsibility to care for the cat now, Thunder.

If you got a girl pregnant, thought she was going to have a boy, and then it turned out that the baby was a girl, would you post the baby on craigslist and try again? Pets = responsibility!

And you don't have to "touch" anything to see what sex they are. Just hold the kitten out in front of you. If there's junk, it's a boy. No junk, girl.

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