Wow, I had not checkd this in a few days. I'll give you all the update. I told her to give me the key to the apartment or give it to the landlord. Since then I have changed the lock. She sent me a text couple days ago, telling me how great this new guy is, blah blah blah. Trying to make me jealous and saying things that would piss me off and get me to lash out. I simply told her, "look, I know he is a great guy, I have friends that know the family." My problem is not with him, its you. "you've been together what a month now? so in another month you will be asking, begging for a ring." When this relationship fails, it will not be his fault but yours. Just like you ruined our relationship you will ruin this one. She responded with I was looking for someone new for a llllooooonnnnnggggg time. I said well you found one now time to screw it up. she continued to try to piss me off, then she took the wrong turn. She text my father, haha that was a bad idea. I'll paraphrase, basically it was "get out of my sons life, you and your evil words about him, our family, and lifestyle were very far out of line, I pray someday it doesn't get turned about around on you. Now stop bothering us." Haven't heard from here since. She would refuse to talk to me face to face.
While I hope for her well being, i do wander off and hope something emotionally happens to her (ie boyfriend cheats on her). I've moved on, not saying I've found someone new, just moving on. She has lost her chance, If she trys to be nice to me or come back into my life it better not be for at least 2 months. Even then I might not talk to her. So i'm enjoying this time, cooking, building stuff, kiteboarding (almost), and tryin not to drink. Thanks again for all the help.

Oh yeah, last sunday her parents were in my fav after church establishment. She had said how much her parents hated me now, and thought I was horrible. Funny thing was her dad comes over says hello, we talk for about 20 mins, he apologizes to me for his daughters actions!!!! I bought his and his wifes breakfast but not their daughters.