Just some advice...

Just put yourself out there, yeah, you'll get rejections, it's apart of life, but you don't want to be with someone if when you first met you were pertraying a person that isn't you. Most couples meet through friends. If you've got friends, meet their friends. Let your friends know you're looking. Just don't ever pull the creepy guy card. Just be a gentleman, be yourself, and don't be afraid. The fear of being alone forever has to be a hell of a motivator, so take the lesser of two fears.

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Have CONFIDENCE! Women, love a confident guy. ... in laymans terms just be sure of yourself.