To Ralph Kramden post, and others here I see nobody has posted for along long time. Well I hope people respond I am in need of it, and I was not in 2006 When these posting were occurring, because I was not Single. So I have nowhere to turn and feel desperate. I have big choices o make in the next several days. Got a job up in norther Va, where my ex girlfriend lies. She left me sunday when we were about to take the next step and move in together, and also I was going to propose something she had always wanted me to do. I have been well, not single for lack of better terms for almost 6 years. And before her nobody, I am just about to turn 26, and though u people may say that it young, it isn't. For me see I feel that the reaosn i met this girl is for the longest time did sit on my ass, but then in college she came into my life, no friends wanted her to date me cause I am well, not the "hot" just Brown Indian dude. And Her well, she was the most down to earth person in the world. So i got a job up where she lives (she moved back home after college to be a teacher) and the two year apart , she shut me out of her life. Slowly. Long story short, she thinks we are "ment" to be together bullshit we are. But no other girl has even wanted to come close to me, how does one get over this? 6 years of love then alone right before starting a big job where she lives where i know nobody else. I think fate gave us enough chances, other people influenced us. And no girls have ever wanted to support me dating their friends, its been sad from the start but she took a chance on me. Now it is over. So I do think people are destined to be alone. I however do also agree some dont do anything about it, but the ones like me who do enormous amounts and still end up alone are truly doomed