21, eh? Well you sound like you are just about where you ought to be. You aren't afraid of commitment - it is just that you are 21. If you still feel that way in 10 years, it raises the question - maybe. At 21? Nope. 21 year old males SHOULD be single and checking out what is out there. No female who is thinking straight wants to be in a relationship with a 21 year old guy, anyway! (because they tend to be busy checking out what else is out there).