I think the people here get married and have babies REALLY young. The men here are conservative, almost shy, and the "marrying kind", I don't know where the wild, crazy, don't want to settle down, just-looking-for-fun dudes hide in Oklahoma. I think they all went to Texas. For example, in Texas once you lock eyes with some dude and there is obviously an attraction, 9 times out of 10 he'd approach you pretty quickly. Here, the dudes will stare at you all day and never actually come introduce themselves, then you see them look disappointed as you leave. I hate that. I like a big dose of aggressive, over the top confidence and almost cocky-ness in my men! At least I have more quality time with my cat here. He appreciates the slower social schedule and having less "uncles" lol.